Chastity is my 'theme of the week'. So i posted on that topic in some bdsm-formum (see e.g. this collorchat-thread )A quite amuzing discussion followed... but let me dissatisfied at the end. At best chastity is viewed as a kind of 'punishment', but most people find it a stupid thing to do, especially when the Person controlling Your chastity is at long distance. For me, when you put chastity in the right perspective, it becomes part of a rich culture and it has many benefits.
Of course, in a FemDom relationship it is normal to start with the benefits for the Mistress. A 'true' FemDom relationship is about the superior needs of the Woman, not about the lowly needs of the male.
In general, a man who is trained in chastity no longer is focused on his penis, and all the lowly needs attached with it. So he can better focus on the superior needs of the Woman he serves.
More specific, a man who is trained in chastity can serve the sexual needs of his Mistress in a better way. A man who isn't trained in chastity reduces his attention to his own penis when he starts making love. A man trained in chastity doesn't even need to orgasm when having sex. So he can fully concentrate on the body of the Woman he is serving, and be very attentive for every little 'signal' She is sending about how he can pleasure Her more.
But chastity has benifits for the lowly male too. In general, it makes your will stronger. Most of us are used to wank the whole day round from their early teens. And it is a very easy thing to do to lower frustration or to have a quick satisfaction. Withold yourself from that behaviour is an act of will, you have to make at least several times a day. And if your Mistress asks to worship Her by admiring Her pictures on the internet several times a day, it really becomes a 'hardening' experience not to give in to what your penis wants.
And -how stranges it may sound- chastity gives sexual pleasure to the male in chastity too. If he is well trained, even a greater and deeper pleasure then he was used to with his easy cumming. When sexually arroused, a lot of sexual energy is build up in the body. For a 'normal' male all this energy is concentrated around the penis and it is released at once during the (short) orgasm. If the body is trained that concentrating the energy in the penis zone is of no use, the energy will spread in the whole body. It builds up, and once a certain treshold passed, it gives a kind of relaxation in the whole body, far deeper than the one you feel after a typical 'male' orgasm. We all know that Women can have deeper and longer orgasms then men. i personally think the 'chastity orgasm' i am describing here is the closest a man can come to the rich feeling of a Female orgasm.
So, dear fellows, if you are convinced of the benefits of chastity, just start doing it. If you need someone to control your chastity, Supreme Goddess Lorena is just one click away. And for those of you who have really stubborn dicks, think of the proper chastity training at the right place.
