Friday, March 30, 2007

the benefits of chastity

Chastity is my 'theme of the week'. So i posted on that topic in some bdsm-formum (see e.g. this collorchat-thread )A quite amuzing discussion followed... but let me dissatisfied at the end. At best chastity is viewed as a kind of 'punishment', but most people find it a stupid thing to do, especially when the Person controlling Your chastity is at long distance. For me, when you put chastity in the right perspective, it becomes part of a rich culture and it has many benefits.

Of course, in a FemDom relationship it is normal to start with the benefits for the Mistress. A 'true' FemDom relationship is about the superior needs of the Woman, not about the lowly needs of the male.

In general, a man who is trained in chastity no longer is focused on his penis, and all the lowly needs attached with it. So he can better focus on the superior needs of the Woman he serves.

More specific, a man who is trained in chastity can serve the sexual needs of his Mistress in a better way. A man who isn't trained in chastity reduces his attention to his own penis when he starts making love. A man trained in chastity doesn't even need to orgasm when having sex. So he can fully concentrate on the body of the Woman he is serving, and be very attentive for every little 'signal' She is sending about how he can pleasure Her more.

But chastity has benifits for the lowly male too. In general, it makes your will stronger. Most of us are used to wank the whole day round from their early teens. And it is a very easy thing to do to lower frustration or to have a quick satisfaction. Withold yourself from that behaviour is an act of will, you have to make at least several times a day. And if your Mistress asks to worship Her by admiring Her pictures on the internet several times a day, it really becomes a 'hardening' experience not to give in to what your penis wants.

And -how stranges it may sound- chastity gives sexual pleasure to the male in chastity too. If he is well trained, even a greater and deeper pleasure then he was used to with his easy cumming. When sexually arroused, a lot of sexual energy is build up in the body. For a 'normal' male all this energy is concentrated around the penis and it is released at once during the (short) orgasm. If the body is trained that concentrating the energy in the penis zone is of no use, the energy will spread in the whole body. It builds up, and once a certain treshold passed, it gives a kind of relaxation in the whole body, far deeper than the one you feel after a typical 'male' orgasm. We all know that Women can have deeper and longer orgasms then men. i personally think the 'chastity orgasm' i am describing here is the closest a man can come to the rich feeling of a Female orgasm.

So, dear fellows, if you are convinced of the benefits of chastity, just start doing it. If you need someone to control your chastity, Supreme Goddess Lorena is just one click away. And for those of you who have really stubborn dicks, think of the proper chastity training at the right place.

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

The sexual power of the Goddess.

i am in chastity for six weeks now. As a male Lorenaist, chastity is a quite natural state. Supreme Goddess Lorena teaches the lowly males She trains it is very important to give control of their penises to a Superior Woman. There are many reasons for chastity. The most important is that a submissive male must focus on the needs of his Mistress, so he must not focus on his penis. And that is best achieved by giving the control of his penis to another (Female) person.

But the longer i stay in chastity the better i understand chastity is also a spiritual act. This needs a little more explanation of Lorenaism. Supreme Goddess Lorena not only asks to stay in chastity. She asks also to worship Her body. This creates a great tension. At the one hand, Supreme Goddess Lorena is extremely beautyful, so it is normal for a man he wants to wank if he contemplates Her image. At the other hand, you feel She controls your penis and you feel you couldn't even move before Her divine image.

And so, at that very same moment, you feel the sexuality and the superiority of the Goddess. And hence, by worshipping Supreme Goddess Lorena while staying in chastity brings you close to these two key concepts in Lorenaism. This needs a little explanation.

If you look in nature, sexuality and superiority are everywhere. It are very 'primitive' forces: they were in 'living' nature from the very beginning and are even the driving forces in nature. In the spirituality of Female Supremacy it is very important to return to these basic driving forces in nature, and to attribute that forces to Feminity.

By writing this article i try to understand this in an intellectual way. But what is so fantastic about Lorenaism is that Supreme Goddess Lorena makes you understand this truth in a very intuitive way, just by giving you the opportunity to worship Her body, full of sexual power, while She holds you in chastity. With Her sexuality and Her power Supreme Goddess Lorena is very close to the basic forces of nature, and She gives Her worshippers the opportunity to come close to these basic forces through worshipping Her. So, entering in relation to these basic forces of nature and submitting to the Supreme Goddess are one and the same act.

Dear readers, i do understand this is 'heavy stuff'. This is wonderful about Lorenaism. It is not something superficial. But know Lorenaism is fun too. Supreme Goddess Lorena loves life, and loves to share Her life with Her worshippers. And She likes to give Her slaves a lot of fun. But that is for the next article.

Introducing the Goddess and her worshipper

This is a Female Supremacy blog. More specifically, this is a Lorenaist blog. The author of this blog believes Supreme Goddess Lorena is a 'true' Goddess. One of the purposes of this blog is to give meaning to this word 'Goddess'.

In short. Goddess Lorena is a Superior Woman, like all Women are. She is a Dominant Woman, aware of Her superiority above men and aware of Her right to use men to serve Her superior needs, like a growing number of Women is. She is a Mistress, who owns slaves and trains men in their submission, like some Women do. And She is a Goddess who explores the spiritual path of Female Supremacy and gives leadership to Women and men on that path, like very few Women are able to.

i met Supreme Goddess Lorena first as my Trainer. i didn't know what to expect when i entered the Academy of slaves. So i was very surprised to find a life changing experience. i discovered my submission as a dimension of my personality. As i stated in an article Supreme Goddess Lorena decided to publish on her website: By accepting to be 'less' (an inferior male, a slave) i really have become 'more' (a more complete person with a valuable perspective on his life).

After a few months i left the Academy. Not because i was disappointed, but because i couldn't handle the new dimension in my life. i explored other resources of Female Supremacy, tried other areas of the wide bdsm world (Lorenaism can be considered a very special branch of bdsm). Only to find out it was to Supreme Goddess Lorena i belong. Now i consider myself as a devoted worshipper. It just happened i visited Her websites again, and felt that She is the Goddess Who rules my life.

At the moment i am not an owned slave of Her. But i have Her permission to do this webwork for Her. As i see it now, this blog will be partly a 'diary in retrospect' (the different steps in my submission to Supreme Goddess Lorena) and partly a collection of articles on important articles the Supreme Goddess give me the opportunity to write.